Hypnotherapy is a fabulous tool for weight management, because it doesn’t focus on the problem!
Often people who would like to lose weight have lost confidence in themselves, which means that they have also lost confidence in their ability to manage their eating habits and therefore their weight. By recognising that our clients have all the tools necessary to be in control of their lives, Solution Focused Hypnotherapists are able to help those clients rediscover their confidence, changing the way that they think in order to bring about change – often not just in managing weight, but in lots of other amazing ways!
One recent client who came to me for weight management found that her work life improved, her social life is back on track, and best of all she is sleeping well – here’s what she says –
“You’ll be pleased to know I’m still sleeping far better than I can ever remember and this week I’m even off to the pool for a swim. A small step, however a small step in the right direction. Once again thank you for all your help! “
When you are really ready to change, and to participate in the process of Solution Focused Hypnotherapy with the help of an experienced and qualified hypnotherapist, those changes are long lasting. You may be interested to read an article recently written by Psychotherapist Jean Fain on www.oprah.com/health which discusses this topic.
I offer a free initial consultation. If you would like to know more, please call me on 01752 894160, to chat or arrange an appointment, or use the contact form here.
Have a fabulous August!
Recently, I went to the funeral of a wonderful lady who had lived to the amazing age of 103! I have known ‘Gran Doll’ for 40 years, and in all that time she amazed me by remembering everything about everyone and everywhere. She lived in the same house for 101 years, and undoubtedly saw so many changes throughout her life.
In her last few weeks, I spoke to her granddaughter, who is also my best friend, and she told me that she thought that the reason Gran was so able to remember so many details was because she always listened well. Gran remembered everyone right up to the moment she passed away.
So is that the key? I think that being completely present is an amazing quality which we often don’t manage in our busy lives, where information is all around us, and we can communicate on so many levels with several people at once. If, like many of us, you find that you can’t easily remember names, places or details, is it perhaps because you weren’t fully present when you received the information? Making connections, forging friendships, even business deals, happens best in an environment where we are focused fully on the person in front of us. It allows all of our senses to work well so that we have the best chance of recalling what was said
Because of Grans’ memory and ability to recall facts, she was definitely never at a loss for something to say – so she was always interesting and interested. This in turn meant that people wanted to be with her. ‘Ask Gran Doll’ was the answer if you didn’t know something. So Gran was rarely without company. It could have been the huge and legendary Cornish pasties she made of course, but I’d like to think that her ability to concentrate completely on what was happening right at that moment was what made Gran stand out from the crowd, and contributed to her long, healthy and happy life.
So, next time your children , your partner, your boss or your best friend have something to tell you, think of Gran and make a point of putting all other thoughts to one side, and really experience the quality of a fully focused conversation. I’d love to know what a difference this makes to you.
“I feel overwhelmed – can hypnotherapy help?”
At this time of year, despite the holiday feeling that comes with the longer, warmer days, life can seem rather overwhelming. At work – “who is going to do my job when I’m away?’ or ‘how on earth am I going to do my job and his, whilst HE is away?’ At school – exams continue, and then there’s sports day, end of year parent’s evenings, leavers assemblies, prom… the list is endless. Even preparing for a restful holiday is hard work – who’s going to look after the goldfish, etc etc..
So what’s the answer? We are becoming more aware that stress is harmful both physically and mentally – the cover article in this months New Scientist by Caroline Williams says that even short term stress can add up to undermine our health, by causing inflammation that causes our immune system to over react. When this process doesn’t stop, we are at increased risk for infection, depression and even cardiovascular disease.
Solution focused hypnotherapy is an approach with two angles. We reduce the stress and improve sleep patterns using hypnosis – a very natural and relaxing process, and through skilful questioning we enable you to use the resources which you already have to seek solutions which will help create a better future for yourself. Bit by bit, situations which once seemed overwhelming begin to seem insignificant, as your thoughts change and you regain control.
I offer a free initial consultation. If you would like to know more, please call me on 01752 894160 to chat or arrange an appointment.
Have a fabulous Summer!
What a difference it makes to our mood when the sun comes out!
Why is that?
Nothing has really changed – our job is the same, the car still needs servicing, and yet, the sun somehow changes the way we see the world.
According to an article written by Rachel Nall, RN, BSN, CCRN in Healthline , sunlight triggers the neurotransmitters that create serotonin in our brain, which makes us feel happier, calmer, more focused and optimistic. On the other hand, darkness triggers the production of melatonin, which makes us feel sleepy.
Along with exercise, sleep and good nutrition, and adequate amount of sunlight (with caution in high UV areas) can give us the natural boost that we need to keep our mood buoyant and help manage seasonal and other types of depression and anxiety.
What a wonderful thing! Walk with your head up, spend time outdoors. Notice the dust that shows up in the house, and then leave it and take a walk in the sun – your brain will thank you for it 🙂
‘Can I increase my confidence with Hypnotherapy?’
Confidence is something we all need a bit of every now and then, and for some it seems to disappear at the most important times! Often it has been hidden by turmoil or stress, and in this case, it can be frustrating to find that where you used to be confident, you now worry about the smallest things.
Solution Focused Hypnotherapy is all about helping you to find the solutions to your problems. Beginning by switching off the stress and with skilful questioning, your hypnotherapist enables you to find hidden strengths and to allow those strengths to become fully yours again, so that you can use them to your highest potential. Bit by bit, you will find that you can do more, as you work with your hypnotherapist towards reaching your goals. Often on the way, clients discover new things about themselves that open up previously un-thought of opportunities for growth and development. It’s an exciting journey!
Here is a recent email I received from a client –
Just to let you know, the tender presentation went really well…worried about talking for 15 minutes – ended up doing 45…thanks so much!”
Whether you need your confidence for you job, your exams, your social life, or just to allow you to get through the day, Solution Focused Hypnotherapy can give you the tools to get back on track.
Call to arrange a FREE initial consultation on 01752 894160. Emergency appointments for exam students are available!
This week, Sam Trigg, who is almost part of our family (can I say that, Sam?) achieved a lifetime goal when he jumped over 16m in the triple jump. Incredible – that’s further than the length of the longest double decker bus in the UK! But Sam didn’t just achieve that distance overnight.
There was once a time when jumping 16m seemed impossible – a distant dream – and even 14m was something to strive towards, but by paying attention to his coaches, by accepting every extra centimetre as a step towards the ultimate goal, he steadily put in place all the necessary building blocks which allowed him to jump that huge distance.
And this is a great way to look at all of our goals, however near or however distant. Breaking them down into small steps which move us slowly but surely in the right direction, we can take pride in every little achievement, and it’s that sense of achievement, those feelings of self-fulfilment and congratulation which allow us to take the next small step.
For Sam, the steps are literally huge, with the reward being perhaps an extra centimetre, but one day, even 16m is going to seem insignificant! Go Sam!
You may have read my blog post about training for the #etapelochness, a 66 mile closed road cycle ride around Loch Ness in the highlands of Scotland. Well the ride happened last weekend and it was amazing! It took us 15 hours to drive from Devon to Drumnadrochit, arriving eventually at midnight to be met with an amazing warm welcome from our host Fiona at the Glenkirk B&B , despite the lateness of the hour!
A comfortable night and an incredible full Scottish breakfast later, we spent the next day registering for the event with 5200 other riders, eating plenty of pasta (!) and doing a recce of the route. The views and breathtaking splendour of the Loch and Glens were just what we had come for, and by now I was really looking forward to the ride.
6.35am on Sunday, and here we were, amongst thousands of riders in the deep chill of a spring Highland morning. Setting off in our group of 260, there was a thrill of anticipation and excitement, and a little bit of trepidation, mostly centred on ‘the climb’ , a 5 mile monster with gradients up to 17%, 34 miles into the ride.
I’d been practising this climb in my head over and over for days (maybe weeks) , seeing myself at the top of the hill, triumphantly fresh and smug.
The reality? I made it around ¾ of the way up the steep first mile and a half, and then stayed on my bike for the rest, really pleased with myself having passed hundreds of riders walking their bikes up the hill. At the top was a piper, and on the way up the very last part of the climb, I was distracted by the magnificent sight of 5 stags running down across the glen. To be honest, I didn’t even notice I was going up a hill as I watched these beautiful animals in full flight, a reminder that it wasn’t my legs giving up, it was my head!
Finishing the ride was a great moment! I’d done it! 66 miles is a long way…….
Now when’s the next ride?
This little phrase has become quite relevant to me this week, for several reasons. One is that on Sunday I’m going to cycle the ‘Etape Loch Ness‘ with my husband. We’ve been training for a few months, and it will be the furthest that I have ever cycled, and certainly the biggest event I’ve ever taken part in. 5200 riders and 66 miles around the Loch! I have to admit, I’m a little anxious, as well as very excited!
I’ve discovered, through trial and error, that ‘loosening up’ is the best way to make it up our Devon hills, and indeed down the other side again, with the least amount of pain. When I overthink the hills, I become tense, lose confidence, and breathe shallowly, which doesn’t help at all. Relaxing, taking things one pedal stroke at a time, and just looking at the tarmac in front of me, instead of at the top of the hill, and before I know it, I’m there.
One of my lovely clients asked me this week, if there was one thing I might suggest that would help them in the next few days, and I said ‘let go – loosen your hold’. Sometimes we need to allow ourselves to loosen up a little and hold on to things a little less tightly, in order to allow an easy flow. With the loosening of the grip comes a realisation of what really is important, and sometimes this can be a surprise! Hypnosis is a wonderful way to allow this to happen, and a few sessions of Solution Focused Hypnotherapy can set you on the road to learning how to properly let go for yourself.
Give it a go – relax a little, loosen your hold, and see what happens!
How do you relax? I fact, DO you relax? In our busy world where information is instant , food is fast and decisions can be made within minutes even when your colleagues are on the other side of the world, downtime can seem like an impossible dream.
And yet it is crucial to our health and wellbeing that we rest and recuperate well. Every part of our being benefits from deep relaxation and sleep, and we know that many modern diseases including diabetes and chronic fatigue and pain result from an increase in inflammation brought on in part by stress.
When we sleep or rest deeply, we allow the process of healing to take place, decreasing the amount of damaging chemicals in our bodies such as adrenaline and cortisol, and also reducing anxiety, emptying our ‘stress bucket’ and giving ourselves space for creativity, enabling more productivity, motivation and positivity.
Solution Focused Hypnotherapy can provide not only an instant way to deeply relax and allow these healing processes to take place, but also helps you find strategies for incorporating good sleep and rest into your everyday routines for the rest of your life.
As part of our continued professional development (CPD) we are required to attend at least two CPD courses a year in order to retain membership of the Association of Solution Focused Hypnotherapy (AfSFH). These courses also form part of the Advanced Hypnotherapy Diploma for which I am studying.
This course was held on Sunday 26th February at the Clifton Practice in Bristol and led by Dr Naeem Iqbal and was very well attended by fellow hypnotherapists from across the UK.
It was a fascinating insight into the incredible workings of the brain at a level not covered on the Hypnotherapy course, and I feel inspired to learn more – in particular about plasticity and the changes that can be made using Solution Focused Hypnotherapy.
Plasticity is the brains ability to strengthen and grow new pathways through the repetition of positive thought and behaviour, and that can happen throughout our lives.
Whilst we are in trance, our brains are optimally primed for plasticity, enabling new connections to form and create change in our thoughts and behaviours.
I look forward to helping you to bring about the changes you look for in your own life.
This story isn’t about hypnotherapy, but it is about what can be achieved once you really put your mind to work. Strength of mind comes from accepting small steps forward and seeing each one as an achievement, and the more you know about the story of British Boxers, the more you’ll find to inspire you.
I’ve spent today in Bristol learning from my amazing colleagues how to deliver effective help for chemotherapy patients during treatment. The award winning team delivering the CPD today are pioneering hospital-based Solution Focused Hypnotherapy in Wales where they have become an essential part of the oncology team. Their research and experience shows that hypnotherapy is effective in reducing anxiety and also reduces the need for medication such as anti-emetics during chemotherapy.
Whilst I don’t yet work in the hospital environment, I am well equipped to offer clinic-based treatment in Ivybridge and Plymouth to anyone undergoing or having completed chemotherapy, including for needle phobias, nausea and pain. Please contact me here, using the contact form below. I look forward to hearing from you.